Liven up the place = yes Spam = no and before you ask...yes you can liven up the place without spamming.
U are trying to steal my ideas and in turn my date. datestealer: @Topic:Also I will ask her one big question, which I have always wondered. What satisfies gals and then you know the conversation will go on and on and I dont need to ask anything.It will just flow on its own.IMO though.
ok this one's from the heart the first thing that a gal will look for is ur confidence level - n if ur gonna worry abt what to talk abt then u already lost the game - if ur confident she will feel secure n if ur lucky she will take care of the talking second thing is not to make a big deal of the date no matter how strongly u feel for her - this is easier said than done - that doesnt mean u ignore her of cos - but be ur natural self third thing is that 'i love u' is the most overrated phrase ever cos it dont mean jackshit n u never ever say it in real life - unless she asks u to or u think she wants to hear it fourth thing is dont plan wht u will talk abt cos the date is never gonna go as planned - women have ten thousand synapses firing where a guy would have ten - so how many u gonna plan for? better to try to understand her mood at the moment & act appropriately fifth - u better be loaded cos money talks sixth - if u can REALLY play the guitar u dont need to read this BS