Nice guys finish last?

Discussion in 'The ChitChat Lounge' started by bjr, Jun 22, 2008.

  1. bjr

    bjr Lady of the Evening


    Considering your post, can you blame her?




    I think it's How not to hit on girls 101
     
  2. elfascinating

    elfascinating risqué

    I donno why you're stuck on that post. All it meant was not to supplicate.
    You can be an ******* and lovable at the same time.
     
  3. SqueakM9

    SqueakM9 mumble

    i cant dont know how anyone can...
    put it this way if you have pissed pet off you've lost...
    shes has the power of popularity and always being right...
    it sucks but its true
     
  4. elfascinating

    elfascinating risqué

    Even the dumbest gal can be the most popular here. Doesn't prove anything.
     
  5. SqueakM9

    SqueakM9 mumble

    you missed the point...
    SHES ALWAYS RIGHT!!!

    i hate it too...
    but i've learnt to avoid her or sugur coat comments that will bring the beast in her out
     
  6. elfascinating

    elfascinating risqué

    She was right .. I didn''t deny that.

    I'm just saying I was right too. Her intention is apparently to flame me rather than discuss.
    I suck at relationship.
    I am doing a bimbo.
    I am worthy of being despised.
    I am "those" kinda men (she didn't specify what kind though).

    It's that time of the month me feels.
     
  7. SqueakM9

    SqueakM9 mumble

    welcome to my world...
     
  8. alpha1

    alpha1 I BLUES!

    thread veering away ...

    bring in the mods
     
  9. angel_of_sin

    angel_of_sin bassist.....

    pet's always right.........
    god is always right...
    pet's a goddess....

    bow to thee pet.........
     
  10. Morbid_Angel

    Morbid_Angel Sid the sloth

    The beast in her? ;) She's just a fan of behavioral psychology, me thinks. I understand, I get pissed off too when someone makes incorrect statements about the subject.

    No worries elfasc, your post is forgotten :) We all phrase things wrongly sometimes.
     
  11. bjr

    bjr Lady of the Evening



    I am the mod!



    And I think it's creepy how there's more than one thread discussing petunia.
     
  12. SqueakM9

    SqueakM9 mumble

    she has that ability...
    delete the other one though its pure spam
     
  13. bjr

    bjr Lady of the Evening

    naw, I don't think it has anything to do with her.


    And the entire point of the lounge is spam.
     
  14. SqueakM9

    SqueakM9 mumble

    true
    dammit
     
  15. Petunia

    Petunia terminally dorky

    Unbelievable.
    I have a confession to make: truth of the matter is, i like to get dirty and argue. I enjoy the emotional confrontations and challenging a person's mind and manner. Challenge me, I dont break down - I want that. I want to be able to talk and discuss and be confronted with ideas, that make me question my own.. THATS A GOOD FIGHT! Elfascinating, as neurotic as he may seem some time and as much as i may want to get him in a choke hold, he happens to be the only man here who is half as close to being challenging enough and who isn't afraid to put up a fight. And i acknowledge that with gratitude. I dont believe you date bimbo's and i dont believe you cant be in a relationship...i just attack your strategy. Lets get that straight.

    And if, the only reason you guys mock me..

    and be weak..

    (And for the record, squeak..you've never seen the beast in me, to know what brings it out. )

    is because im a girl..then shove it. Because I dont need "nice" from anyone.
    I want these debates..and i want to be able to do it with people strong enough to take it and give it with that much intensity.
    If IGT is all about spamming and hitting on.. then this place truly hasnt changed since the last time i left.

    @morbid: i had to acknowledge your sanity in all of this. \m/
     
  16. bjr

    bjr Lady of the Evening

    meh, I don't like to argue anymore...I just don't seem to have the inclination to. I do it with nottyboi sometimes for old times sake and even then, I'm really not into it for more than 10 mins.




    Then start your own discussions. Make a thread where you think your thought process is likely to be challenged. Considering that our thought process seems to match for the larger part, I don't think we're likely to be arguing about anything anytime except maybe methodology. However, you really shouldn't expect to pop in and find something interesting without being more pro-active yourself.



    That's not true. You've just not had a disagreement with the right people.

    There is a difference between being challenging and being downright irrational and being irrational just for the sake of argument isn't my cup of tea. That being said, I'd rather be talking to someone irrational than someone agreeing with me all the time (nice girls finish last). As for fights, they're great as long as you know what you're fighting for which people here (and most places) tend to forget:


    "Okay, lets get one thing straight. What are we fighting for?"

    "We're fighting to own this street"

    *chorus* "Hell yeah"

    "Bullshit. We're fighting for fun."






    As for the hit-on fest, I think we need to really really stop. It's downright scary. We make this place what it is though. If we start posting enough, we should be able to attract some cooler people.
     
  17. Morbid_Angel

    Morbid_Angel Sid the sloth

    ty ty :grin:

    now i'll be waiting for some intense debate threads :p
     
  18. augur

    augur I love bjr

    I haven't seen any debates here. Apple Singh doesn't count.
     
  19. bjr

    bjr Lady of the Evening


    Apple Singh is just a cheap advert for the great Indian laughter challenge.
     
  20. CARLOS SANTANA

    CARLOS SANTANA New Member

    @petunia..
    everybody plz forgive me if its offensive 2 u.
    @petunia....i read in a paper that during p in women a man shud support her rather than leaving her in a state of " let her deal with that ,dont disturb her".
    is that true if yes then what kinda support. and if no then im sorry..
     

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