What are your views on Marriage?? whats the ideal age for guys and girls to get married.. PS- There maybe a similar thread, but i dont wanna search..
hey.. i was just now reading a book about Marriage... named Prem Shastra.. hehe.. i dunno nething about it yet.. will come back to this thread if i get to know something
: Kya hai bubbly, u r thinking of getting married soon : I don't know much about marriages. But from as much as i know,... I respect it very much, and i believe it as a very strong relationship between the partners.. IF u live in AMerica, marriage is nothing to them. U get married in one day, u r divorced the next day....which doesn't make any sense to me.......TO me, marriage should be a long lasting relationship and it is very important to choose wisely who u want to spent the rest of ur life...... Ideal age, i don't think it is very important.....as long as u r above 20 for girls, i think its ok......it just depends on how mature u r rather than on the age...... :beer:
agreed....but God knows that maturity does not always come with age. To suggest that these people do not get married at all would break my heart. I am obsessed with marriages.
To get married or not is a personal preference......if one is not satisfied in having a marriage life, what is the point of getting married........ SO i woudl prefer not getting marrried rather than getting forcibly married.... :dance:
But is it nescessary that an immature person can never find solace and support in a member of the opposite (or even same) ***? Wouldn't marriage be a nescessity for them then? I agree that their lack of maturity might get in the way of the marriage eventually but there is also a chance that it will not. Wouldn't you rather risk possible happiness rather than embrace certain loneliness?
bubblymartini..meet up with me..and we shall elope and have a 3 legged baby just like the one in ur display pic/avatar. that should be cool..
That baby doesn't have three legs.......i think u misinterpreted the thigh for a leg....... anyway, nice imagination...... :
My age is ideal. U need to grow up a little, then, I may give it a thought. Dharmatma: have a 30+ first.
Living together is better but you have to have a lot of trust in ur partner for that....Marriage is a bit safer (i.e. u can sue him/her if he/she cheats on u!...)....ideal age?...i'm cluless!
sorry off topic, but remembered a joke.. Consequences of American lifestyle Wife: Darling,come quickly,..."my" kids and "your" kids are beating up "our" kids.:
marriage is a sacred relationship a complicated one as if u choose the wrong one u may end up as the saying " marriage is the only war in which u sleep with ur enemy" but if the right person or the 'near to the right ' person u can enjoy a pleasant marital life ideal age to get married for a gurl i think its 25 for a boy 30 hmmm i also think that today the marital institution no longer has the unifying power as there has been an inprecedented rise in the rate of divorces in recent decades marriage is a necessary "evil" to maintain morality and also for the survival of the religious beliefs n also i am strictly against the polygamy things where one man marries more than one woman ie he has legal rights of a husband upon more than one wife what more.... thats all n for me i am thinkg abt marriage for the next 10 yrs at least......
for a guy 30^?? .. and then kids at 32 .. they are 18 when you go 50 .. die in a few years and leave them orphans at such a young age!:S not fair is it ...
