^^well yeah.... it may not happen at the first site.. but i think ..looks r necessary for the initiation...
...for those of you GOOFS for whom looks DO matter!!!.... what if you married someone that you fell in love with for their looks...and then ...after yur wife had children...she got really big and ugly...or suppose they lost an arm or leg in an accident...and yu girls who think looks matter...what if your man developed a bear belly and went bald or lost teeth...would you leave them on that basis???...personally i think if looks is what gave the relationship so called strength in first place...then that relationship is at high risk of weakening once ones looks change...(which everyone's will as age settles on them...) i still hold my view...LOOKS ARENT IMPORTANT!....
^^we arent saying that looks r the only thing... just that it may initiate a relationship...between 2 ppl...
...ok...then that's fine:...if yu like one's looks but their looks arent the only thing thats attracted you...it is perfectly fine...i'm releived to know you understand that because i do sadly say i know some people for whom looks are most important or of only importance....
personally, i think he is right too.........but u can fall in love without actually seeing a person..........difinitely look is not the most important or the only important, but it does initiate a relationship btween 2 people..........so looks do have role in a relationship.........but if the person is hot and have a very bossy, irritation personality..then looks are not serving it's definite purpose......... :think: and when ur partner gets ugly or whatever, u r gonna be too........so both of them are on the same level.........also, none of them are not gonna stay at sweet teenage time always...........time will change, and it is gonna change us too....... :rock:
'Khoobsurat hai tu is kadar' thats a song by Sandeep Chowta....describes evrythng u wanna kno bout love....there is a gurl whose Husband(I guess) is hadicapped....they both r crying...& finally the song depicts that Love is to complete each other......& not to find a complete/perfect person..... & yes ....u can fall in Love evn without seeing a person....thats wat happennd to me this time.... hokey...enuff for now...byeee
stop this plagrisim.... stop this hypocracy half of the people talking here about.. that looks don't matter and bla bla stuffs.. may still look for some look, i think beside looks knowing someone is more important if u don't know someone u cannot love him/her, i don't belive at love at first sights but yes i do belive in love and yes falling in love with a person whom u never met or seen is pretty acceptable but i still think loooks does matter.. although looks gonna fade away..
Where the hell is "plagrisim" or "hypocracy"?? How are we remotely copying each others ideas (seriously, what made you feel that such things could happen?), or being hypocrates? We are saying what we think. And i restate: If **** movies is what you call love, then looks is love. People who take advantage of their looks, well...lets not get started on that shall we?
Having the same opinion is no thought crime mate. We're totally different people NOT copying each other. And where was the hypocrisy now?
hypocracy in the sense, that people.. just to show that yeah they know what love to them is it's not look and all stuffs, just like.. few other people.. if someone loving you for all your life and u not actually caring about him/her and going for someone else who's better in looks and then coming down here and saying. .. "nope, looks don't matter and bla bla" stuffs.. i know.. i'm souding little eccentric with what i'm trying to convey, may be ur not able to catch my drift nevermind that.. i got no hard feelings against anyone.. i was conveying my message... did'nt wanted to offend anyone and i said in general.. main kissi ki taraf point nahin kiya.. that he/she is lying..
woooopssssss ..... the cat is desperately tryin to get out of the bag .. lol yeah .. i think .. langooors are fine ... i am one .. and i am lovin it ... [edit]umm what is a langoor though .. i thought it was ugly monster but a guy just tld me its not ..
@ Knight guitar: I wish you understood what i feel about people making use of their looks to get their job done. Naah I'll go with your theory which to be brief states: "Anyone who differs from me with his/her opinion is lying and being a hyprocate"
Dude.. u surely taking things to ur heart man.. !! relax ok it's just a thread and we are having a discussion.. no need to make a mountain of a mole hill yaar.. relax kaar bhai.. !!! enjoy.. and have a nice time..
and ... I thought I was the only one !!!!!!!!!!! even I ve been thru this Garima ..... falling in love without seeing her ......... yeah I knw it sounds weird .... bt only who hv been thru this can understand .... at times we just dont care how the person looks....... all we care is only abt the person himself/herself ....... or how it feels to be with her ..... or (weird still) when I think abt her ...................sorry ... I guess I cant explain that ................