anyone here have a best friend/ boyfriend/girlfriend that lives far far away?... :think: in what ways do you cope with being away from them? :drunk: :music: :boxed: :rock: ... ...?
i do have one back in India. the sad thing is i have no contact with him in this one whole year. still i remember him. yesterday i dreamt about him. kinda creepy still fascinating in some ways.
it can surely work , only when is very strong determination and love !!! there are many hassles in long distance realtionship but for surely it is workable , i ve never been commited with anyone during my stay of 6 yrs outside india , but can surely share my brothers experience with you guys .. my brother was with his girlfriends from last 8 yrs , he left india about 4 yrs back to work in st martin's in west indies , he didnt liked the place so i called him to nigeria and he is very happy working here !!! these 4 yrs he was away with his g/f but still mantained contacts , he got married with the same girl last yr november and they both are happily living after that so u c , its workable - i would nt deny that . tho it really depends upon case to case and individual to individual , how you tacle it , how much you both are really involved with each other and how you mantain your contacts and your involvement really matters ... in other cases its always out of sight is out of mind !!!
Agree with u BoB I hv a GF who stays in Pune.....whereas i stay in Bangalore.....get to meet her once in like 4-5 months....its the feeling i get when i meet her after such a long time which only binds us more stronger. P.S:-Tho its a bit more expensive...phone calls n webcam chatiing.....major lols!!
Hmm,.. I believe its pretty difficult to maintain such relationships!! Though every thing can be worked out, best way to keep up with long distance is have nother one there for u,... i mean short distance : hehe so,.. to maintain long distance have a short distance along side. It will help,.. hmm!!
all i wanted to say abt this..is already said well worded by bobby...that the important ingredient would be love and determination.... but if its a crush or infatuation then forget it!! rather i have even heard and seen my friends in such circumstances..their boyfies used to go abroad or elsewhere then after sometime the rship started to fade despite of very strong bonding while they were together...so ambiguous is this long distance luv :think: tahda!!
Long distances ..... you are away.. your heart is away.. then how can the relation continue??.. I dont know.. Seriously.. Don't ever go for such things.. you'll be at a loss...when it turns out to be futile.:
thats what i meant .........at some point of time you ppl have to come together and settle down long distance rel cant go forever.
I have been travelling heavy in India , and world around.............well i Know my wife since we were in school, Earlier it was constant letters and pocket money saving and calling those very costly calls then, now apart from the on ephone that i make every day to india,i am better conected, so its live Audio/Video thru the net. I carry my Laptop/cam/mic etc and make sure that the Hotel i put up at has a very fast 24 hr internet connection and not a regular dial up one. I keep my Web and Cam on most of the times and am visible....ridiculous but true...we tend to miss each other a little less that way.hic!!! Amongst all this the want to be together is still so strong that when we meet its like the first time that we had met after I proposed to her!!!!!!!!!!Felt your heart beat with strong THUDS!!!!!!!!! LOL......................Amazing experience!!!!!!!
And Dlogic Long Distance Can Go On And On And On ......................you Have Got To Have Love For The Person And The Ability To Wait Can Say That With Experience.................and Knowledge
@jijo if you check my ealier post thats what i have said...but the exception is that one cant stay away forever(atleast i cant) as it turn into a "pen pal" relationship. btw...your love ROX!!!!!!!!