Discussion in 'The ChitChat Lounge' started by nandy0894, Jun 11, 2012.
love does not die because of distance ... it dies because of doubt...
there is nothing confusing about that i think ..
read it again :
If there is doubt, then there was no love.
Love is a form of energy. It can neither be created nor be destroyed, it can be just transferred from one person to the other and that the total amount of love in an isolated system remains constant over time. :goof:
not true.. or maybe true..but just theoretically.
sometimes...doubt does crop in after love..
Doubt of what sort?
I heard it in your voice tonight
It didn't matter what I said
I felt like I wasn't talking to you
Inside you were already dead
You don't love me anymore
You've already moved on
You already imagine your life
With me being gone
I'm waiting for nothing
I already know what you'll say
You'll say you do still love me
But not in the same way
How did you change so quickly?
You were so into me before.
I wish I never had brought it up
I shouldn't have asked for more.
You're already over me
I felt it through the phone
I had you to call before
Now I feel so alone.
When you come back from your trip
You'll tell me you don't need me
You'll tell me what we had
Is something not worth keeping.
I promised you I can change
I'm willing to make the effort
But laying it all out for you
I feel like a broken record
My words hold no more meaning
I don't want to be your chore
I'm the fool to keep trying since
You don't love me anymore.
assumptions kill it..
i have nothing more to add.
Wrong Turn. Excuse me. Emo corner.
As a typical female, you've just shot an opinion from your hip, without adding any value, and even refuse to substantiate your claim.
but yeah, i can't stress enough how annoying that can get sometimes! women need to steer away from "hormone talk".
That's not the end of the thread...It's just the beginning..
Another one of those utterly useless words ... uttered by females usually.
who says its useless?
thats just your way of thinking boy.
assumptions and doubts kill it.. thats what i said..
now..doubts of what sort.. ?
umm .. that probably he \ she is dating some one else
probably i am not attractive to him \ her anymore
probably he does not want to marry me
probably our phonecalls are just turning to a duty or a ritual
probably i am disturbing him\ her...
and so on
these doubts do come up! and its normal..and i totally disagree with you when you say that there was no love if doubt crops in .. it is just a sort of hose creepy one liners that everyone loves to read but no one follows.
You believe you are not worth your partner?
Insecurity about attraction?
Why did you not feel this way earlier?
There is a great difference between attraction and love.
And attraction is a very volatile emotion.
To me it looks like your "love" was based on looks and attraction - no wonder it will fizzle out.
LOL, marriage? So you start loving a person only when you are sure you will get married? Is your love that calculated?
Of course they will.
AGAIN: There is a great difference between attraction and love. Of course you know little about this (evident from another thread)
How does this matter in the love equation?
Of course you will disturb the most loved person sometimes or the other.
The war has begun :sdt:
Actually she cannot be blamed.
Being a teenager - she would immediately equate attraction and love.
And thus jumping into "relationships" and exiting which is common in youth.
But quite frankly I am amused over the marriage part!
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