Are men afraid??

Discussion in 'The ChitChat Lounge' started by Varshita, Jan 9, 2006.

  1. Varshita

    Varshita New Member

    I heard this song last night after ages.... No doubt its a beautiful number sung by Mohd. Rafi and with amazing lyrics.

    But what made me write this thread were the lyrics !

    Song is from the movie Haqeeqat ( old one...)

    Main yeh soch kar uske dar se utha tha
    ke woh rok legi , mana legi mujhko

    Hawaon mein lehrata aata tha daaman
    ki daaman pakad kar bitha legi mujhko

    Kadam aise andaaz se uth rahe the
    ke awaaz de kar bula legi mujhko

    Magar ne usne roka, na usne manaya
    na daaman hi pakda, na mujhko bithaya
    na awaaz hi di, na wapas bulaya
    main aahista ahista badta hi aaya
    yahan tak ki us se juda ho gaya main
    yahan tak ki us se juda ho gaya main
    juda ho gaya main
    juda ho gaya main.....

    Now why cant the guy stop when he knows what he is doing is not what he is supposed to do?
    And to top it all... he doesnt even want to do it himself?
    How Ironic !!

    Why does he want the female to stop her and beg for him to stay?
    Why do men need women to tell them that we need from them? Or tell them what they are supposed to be doing?
    Are they afraid to express their feelings? Or is it their ego?
    They would rather be left all alone... than to express their feelings?

    I wonder !!
  2. CrYpTiC_angel

    CrYpTiC_angel Rebelle!

    ^^who r u??????

    *looks suspiciously*

    this looks like some1's fake id to me......

    can sharad throw some light on this??
  3. Varshita

    Varshita New Member

    lol....Why suspiciously !!

    I m Varshita....

    Bechare sharad ne kuch nahi kiya... he doesnt even know i m writing this post... he is busy at work... and i m not too sure what his reaction is going to be once he is back....

    See ya at the IGT meet
  4. CrYpTiC_angel

    CrYpTiC_angel Rebelle!

    ^^lol.. ok..

    but u want to be known as somebody's gf instead of as urself???

    (sorry for being off-topic :grin: )
    anshphenomenon likes this.
  5. vini

    vini Repeat Offender

    i love such feminist thoughts!!
    kudos to cryptu ;)

    me too..sorry for being offtopic
    CrYpTiC_angel likes this.
  6. Varshita

    Varshita New Member

    Well well well !!
    My entry in IGT is not being well taken....
    Ever since i ve come... the only concern for people has been... that why is my id so..!!
    Guys chill....I came here for fun... and to actually read some threads... which sharad had mentioned to me... didnt knew i would offend so many people with my id !!

    And by the way i dont think you lose your individuality if you are referred to as someone's gf?? Is this a case of sour grapes?
    See ... i m not here for plz back off...
  7. Nanda

    Nanda Bassist

    whtever ... Wht u r doing is funny and wierd ... and totally agree with ppl scorning at you ... As i always say .. even dogs are not meant to be tied up ... No ones anybodys ... no one owns anyone ...
  8. CrYpTiC_angel

    CrYpTiC_angel Rebelle!

    my question was outta curiosity, that's all.

    i'm outta here.
  9. vishwa_81us

    vishwa_81us Banned

    i support that.. evry person shud have his/her individuality...
  10. ambush

    ambush _RASTA_man_

    im sure its just ego
  11. vini

    vini Repeat Offender

    Nah..u got us all wrong..point well accepted :shock:
    we're glad to have u here as part of our community

    Welcome aboard!! :)
  12. can_i_play

    can_i_play New Member

    Now on to the topic.......

    its like standing behind (salakhein)bars(no ..i have newer been in jail)...the one inside also sees the jailor behind bars... if area to concentrate is just the bars(salakhein)...

    in short it always appears other person is egoistic ......
  13. bjr

    bjr Lady of the Evening

    pft, I cant be bothered to translate into hindi right now....but welcome anyway.

    But whatever the question, I assure you the answer is ego.
  14. Varshita

    Varshita New Member


    Guys now lets focus on the thread.....
  15. knight_guitar

    knight_guitar Lead Guitarist

    ^^ cough cough !! and what exactly is going here ??????
  16. anshphenomenon

    anshphenomenon Rape me :boff:

    we belive u shd throw some light on it..:)
  17. knight_guitar

    knight_guitar Lead Guitarist

    i'm ready to floodlight , highlight the whole thing.. paar.. i'm still smelling something very fishy fishy.. !!..
  18. Varshita

    Varshita New Member

    What do you mean fishy fishy???

    *taps her fingers on the table*
  19. Varshita

    Varshita New Member

    Well.... a freind of mine told me yesterday that its their EGO
    so now my next question is...
    Is male ego so big that they can even sacrifice or give up on the love of their life?
    Do men think they would be termed weak if they say so?
  20. the_wizard

    the_wizard Omega == God

    leave this question for Sharad to answer

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