1. I asked mitali if she is a girl.
And if she responds back by saying - it shouldn't matter - I get my answer.

2. If she responds by saying girl/boy/undecided - I again get my answer.

3. Ashy asked me the same. I responded by saying - it shouldn't matter. If ppl are intelligent enough they can make out what it implies (two implications actually).

The thing is that what "doesn't matter to me" may matter to you.
Hence, we both make ourselves clear.

Is this clear?