Sorry, but if your thread is directed at a specific person, you might as well use the Private Messaging facility. Go to your User CP, choose the option to send a PM and send it. Please don't make threads to discuss something with someone in specific.
Overwhelmed as one would be, placed in my position
Such a heavy burden now to be the one
Born to bear and read you all the details of our ending
To write it down for all the world to see
But I forgot my pen, Shit the bed again...